How to start when you don’t know how
How many times did you want to make changes in your life, you think it through, you know you want to start and then you get stuck, everything is too much, the fear kicks in, failure comes to mind and you stop.
We are moving towards the middle of the year and we “might” have that feeling of not starting what we wanted to, or the dreams or goals we wanted to achieve this year.
Here are tools for you to use as guidelines for when you are not so sure how to start :
- The most important place to be is where you are. Start exactly from the point of where you are today. Don’t overthink it. If you face a challenge start where you are, make the change where you are from, you don’t have to revisit what is done. Look forward into your future make the changes you can, even if it is one step at a time. It is one step in the right direction.
- Know where you are. Journal your thoughts, keep morning pages, become aware of your thoughts throughout your day. Again, one step at a time is fine in the right direction.
- Action your dreams – one step at a time.
- Don’t give yourself a hard time, take care of yourself, respect yourself as you do others. Don’t give that critical voice speaking to yourself any headspace.
It’s giving yourself the space and grace to start where you are, forgive yourself and move forward, remember God is all about forgiveness and grace.
Take care – Debbera xoxo